Thursday, June 21, 2012

Nature or nurture?

Sometimes I wonder, are humans naturally born as disgusting, ugly, filthy creatures or are only the people here are disgusting, ugly, and filthy? As days go by, I am always surprised with how "low" and how disgusting these people can be. Some will say these people are sick and hence not in a very good mood. Some say that these people are poor. Some say that these people are not so lucky to get a good education or to be brought up with a good family. Thus we should PITY them. I would have to disagree. Some of these people are not sick, some are rich, some are well educated. But still, they can turn out ugly, disgusting, and filthy.

It is a common sense and basic courtesy to ask/clarify something politely, especially if you are asking for help and especially if you are not very sure whether it is a mistake on your part. I can't believe how people can come rudely accusing that they are not given a change or they are not given the thing they buy. We have CCTV to see everything. There is evidence that you took your $45 change back and you put it in your wallet. How can you shamelessly accuse people that you were not given your change? There is evidence that you handed whatever item you bought to your small kid after you made the payment. If after that your kid lost it or threw it away, have some shame before accusing people for not giving the item to you. There is evidence that we gave out whatever medicines to whomever-who-asked-you-to-come. Before putting your face in a shameless predicament, you could have checked with the whomever for the facts.To make things worse, despite you people blaming others for your own mistake, there is never a SORRY or an apology even after evidence that you are in the mistake.

No correlation with education level though. Doctors are supposed to be the cream of the crop, the best of the best, and the smartest of all people. As the saying goes IQ does not equal to EQ. I can't believe how self-centred these people can be. Do you think that we *love* you so much that we want to have a conversation with you all the time? Wake up! We have no choice. We have to call you because of your mistakes. Medicines not ordered, wrong doses, wrong medicines, missing orders, wrong durations, etc. If you hate to answer the call so much, then get it right in the first place. And there is no need to shout/scream/bang the phone down. Know that sometimes people change their minds quickly and want this and want that. So do you want us to help you by calling you or do you prefer us to send these people back to you?

And the most disappointing of all is the fact that we are doing nothing to change this situation or these people. I strongly believe that as a "better" human beings, we should educate these uneducated misbehaved animals. Instead, for the sake of customer service and/or inferiority-complex, we stoop even lower than animals by condoning their actions and "just take it all".

Ridiculous, disgusting, filthy. I wonder when I can get out of this mess.. Or when I can be at the top so that I can correct these ridiculous attitudes..

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